If you could ask a porn model a question ... what ..

[jade12]

What would that question be?


And need some good questions folks ... you MAY get some free publicity for your questions ;o)

[Funbrunette]

Honestly, I would ask how many times she fakes it? :angel: Or do they REALLY get off all the time?!?

[jade12]

Originally posted by Funbrunette
Honestly, I would ask how many times she fakes it? :angel: Or do they REALLY get off all the time?!?

yeah but do you think she'd want that made public knowledge? b/c if surfers see that ... it may turn them off ... I'm sure can ask a generalized version of that question ... like have you ever faked it? but not sure if the other one would be appropriate for surfer audience ;o)

[Funbrunette]

Originally posted by jade12
yeah but do you think she'd want that made public knowledge? b/c if surfers see that ... it may turn them off ... I'm sure can ask a generalized version of that question ... like have you ever faked it? but not sure if the other one would be appropriate for surfer audience ;o)

Well Miss you didn't tell me what it was for! :p Or am I that much out of it...lol

[jade12]

Originally posted by Funbrunette
Well Miss you didn't tell me what it was for! :p Or am I that much out of it...lol

hey man .... i can't give out all the details in public LOL

it's something that I'm working on and wanna do a shocker when it oges LIVE!

[Evil Chris]

My question would be... "If you weren't working in adult whatsoever, what would you be doing?"

[MorganGrayson]

I like Chris' question. Good man, Chris. :)

Mine would be: No one can predict the path their life will take, hence no one ever knows what they'll be doing in ten years. Have you given any thought to how you'll handle being a 40-year-old PTA mother of three and having those pics surface?

Too serious a question, I fully admit, and one that would no doubt cast a pall on a fun "Q&A" session, but I like to think about these things.

FB...I used to do phone sex and one of the things that totally surprised me was the number of times I *wasn't* faking it. I had some fantastic regulars that I really liked, great guys, and I did tend to get into the spirit of the thing, so-to-speak, with these guys. One was an older gentleman who liked telling me stories of his glory days as a young sailor at the USO. One wrote historical novels and I was able to drop the perfect names of authors I read when I was younger. (Who knew that reading Thomas Costain would get me off? I'm almost certain the late Mr. Costain never did.) One was a delightfully freaky little old dude who could cum seven times in one phone call. I do NOT know how he did it, but he called a lot and always managed it. (He certainly wasn't faking it and I felt the obligation to hold up the reputaion of younger women. Besides - how the hell often do *I* get to be "the younger woman"???)

I once knew a lesbian prostitute/massage parlor worker who showed up at the gay bar where I hung out wide-eyed and trembling. She'd had her first and only orgasm with a customer and was in shock. She hadn't thought she could cum with a male, finding them pleasant in many respects but certainly not sexually.

How I do go on....

[jade12]

It is a good question ....... I will throw out some political questions as well because I think some of them will answer them and who knows who will end up reading them anyways. I think it 's important to address some of those issues since this business seems to get the shitty end of the stick a lot of times in the media ........ like we all have a sexual addiction problem, we all use drugs etc. etc.

Even when I was doing adult entertainment, it was frustrating for me to be stereo typed all the time, people just didn't get that ... to me it was a job and I took it very seriously .... sure it had a lot of perks, but in reality it's whether you get carried away or you don't.

[MorganGrayson]

Originally posted by jade12
It is a good question ....... I will throw out some political questions as well because I think some of them will answer them and who knows who will end up reading them anyways. I think it 's important to address some of those issues since this business seems to get the shitty end of the stick a lot of times in the media ........ like we all have a sexual addiction problem, we all use drugs etc. etc.

Even when I was doing adult entertainment, it was frustrating for me to be stereo typed all the time, people just didn't get that ... to me it was a job and I took it very seriously .... sure it had a lot of perks, but in reality it's whether you get carried away or you don't.

Jade...every business has its perks and problems. Nobody grows up thinking "gee, I want to be in porn when I grow up." Of course, almost nobody out there got to be what they wanted to be when they grew up. The vast majority of us have jobs we fell into.

I never got "stereotyped." I got "you're kidding?" I look like what I was: a former PTA Vice-president. A "Mom." When I tell civilians I write and build websites, they just nod and smile, making the automatic assumption that I build polite little sites for some mainstream thing. I've met other webmasters at conventions who had a little trouble placing the person in front of them in context.

We're all faced with choices with our work and how we handle those choices determines the quality of our lives. I always wondered if models were prepared for the choices that were going to appear in front of them.

Another good question for the models is: how secure are you at saying "no" to photographers and directors, et al? Are you proactive with how you are treated or have you let yourself become a victim?

[jade12]

Originally posted by MorganGrayson
Jade...every business has its perks and problems. Nobody grows up thinking "gee, I want to be in porn when I grow up." Of course, almost nobody out there got to be what they wanted to be when they grew up. The vast majority of us have jobs we fell into.

I never got "stereotyped." I got "you're kidding?" I look like what I was: a former PTA Vice-president. A "Mom." When I tell civilians I write and build websites, they just nod and smile, making the automatic assumption that I build polite little sites for some mainstream thing. I've met other webmasters at conventions who had a little trouble placing the person in front of them in context.

We're all faced with choices with our work and how we handle those choices determines the quality of our lives. I always wondered if models were prepared for the choices that were going to appear in front of them.

Another good question for the models is: how secure are you at saying "no" to photographers and directors, et al? Are you proactive with how you are treated or have you let yourself become a victim?


Well I got stereotyped b/c I don't look like a mom nor your PTA president lol ....... I look like your bad/naughty girl who WILL take you home and do bad things to you ....... if only your mommy knew hehehe ;o))

But people assumed b/c I looked like a naughty girl, I had naughty habits .... which I never did. However I never let that attitude deter me from doing anything I wanted to do in life, unfortunately some people do tho.

And no i didn't grow up thinking hey I wanna be a stripper when i grow up, I did it b/c my sister did and she kept flashing er cash in front of me, so I said hey SIGN me up LOL (but that was a long time ago, when strippers actually made good money in Canada).

[MorganGrayson]

One of the things I learned early in life is that you can't control what other people think. You also can't let it effect you. If people want to think that you're "naughty" or "evil" or whatever the hell is going around in their heads, all you can do is ignore them.

My youngest went through a phase of dressing like she'd bite rebar in half if given the chance. Black clothing, studded wristbands...she didn't miss a trick. She was a recovering agoraphobic and wanted to make people back off and not approach her in public. It worked, too...right up until she opened her mouth and started to talk and people realized that inside the "leave me the fuck alone" costume was a bright, funny, approachable person. She passed through that phase, thankfully, and now looks on the outside like she is on the inside.

The only stripper I ever knew personally before I got into this business was the single mother of a toddler. Her job gave her plenty of time during the day to spend with her son and plenty of money to buy him a nice apartment to live in and lots of toys. She could pay for a responsible person to watch him while she worked. I guess that effected the way I viewed strippers. :)

[bird]

Are you on myspace?

[jade12]

Originally posted by bird
Are you on myspace?

is who on myspace? and if you're asking me that, the answer is no or are you referring to the porn model?

[Stephane76]

to the model:
what do you think about Global warming?

[war_ner]

Originally posted by bird
Are you on myspace?


Hahahaha, that's a good start I guess.. :D

[jade12]

Originally posted by war_ner
Hahahaha, that's a good start I guess.. :D

you guys are crazy LOL ... I'll post the links to the interivews when they're done ;o)) got some damn good one's too ;o)

[TheLegacy]

My question would be... "so do you plan on staying the whole night or should I ask front desk to just send breakfast up for my wife and I?"

actually the more realistic one would be.. "can I have my wife back now?"

[MorganGrayson]

I thought of another question:

How do you handle being recognized in public? Does it make you feel good or sometimes make you feel threatened? Do you travel with security, or perhaps wish that you did? Do you often go out in public "disguised" to prevent recognition? (i.e. no makeup, hair not done, very casual clothing, etc.)

[Quagmire]

"Would you like to touch my peepee?"

Seriously though, I'd probably ask what or who pushed them in the direction of porn. Were they there for financial reasons only, or was it a sexual thing on a person level that they wanted to get off/please people etc.

Yeah. Thats my question.

[Panky]

There's some pretty good questions offered here.

[jade12]

Originally posted by Quagmire
"Would you like to touch my peepee?"


LMAO .... didn't you have that or something similar to it in your avatar before ?

[StaceyJo]

I would ask her what leads you to enter porn industry as a model? Is their any particular reasons, influence?

I certainly what to ask that...

[war_ner]

Originally posted by stacey_JRN
I would ask her what leads you to enter porn industry as a model? Is their any particular reasons, influence?

I certainly what to ask that...

I think questions like that would only make them feel uneasy. Better ask him something that would mke them comfortable with you..

Talk about BUsh instead..

[jade12]

Originally posted by war_ner
I think questions like that would only make them feel uneasy. Better ask him something that would mke them comfortable with you..

Talk about BUsh instead..

actually I'm going to be asking quite a variety of questions on different subjects because I don't want it to be the same old same old kind of interivew, would get pretty boring after a while esp for me LOL

[Panky]

I imagine these interviews will be far from dull with Jade running the show. :D

[Visualad]

I once asked a brunette model that went under the stage name: "Fun" if she liked the cock.

She said she likes to dine at the Y more than grabbing the cock.

[Funbrunette]

Originally posted by Visualad
I once asked a brunette model that went under the stage name: "Fun" if she liked the cock.

She said she likes to dine at the Y more than grabbing the cock.

That's cuz you're cock is too small sugar! :p

[Visualad]

Originally posted by Funbrunette
That's cuz you're cock is too small sugar! :p

you just say that cause your titties are starting to hang low..

[MorganGrayson]

Ooh, boy, Visualad! ::-| Nice knowin' ya! My money's on FB for this one!

A long time ago, one of my daughters decided to follow me into adult freesite building. (Yes, of course she was old enough. However, she did become one of the reasons I have problems with the whole "teen" niche.)

As a parent, you can "hear" body language, and I swear I heard her freeze at the computer. I had known she had been looking for content, so I came over and said "what's wrong?" She pointed at the model on the screen. "I know her," she said. "I went to school with her." And that became the end of my daughter's buying her own content. I bought it after that, and put her safely into mature, etc., niches - where she could get back to harassing her mother.

Later, when my daughter had recovered, I got the story of her former schoolmate's life. It wasn't pretty. It rocked my own ability to function in this business for a while, too. I've met a lot of models, and most of them were demonstrably adults who'd made a decision to work in a certain field and didn't seem too much the worse for wear. However, every once in a while you run across a model where you *don't* want to ask the "how did you get into this business" question. If the question is answered honestly, it will ruin your day. If it isn't answered honestly, you'll probably know it, and it will ruin your day.

The above could lead off into a wonderful essay on the totaly hypocrisy of this business if I was in the mood, which I am not.

[John77]

...do you really expect any smart answer to your whatever question ?

[war_ner]

Originally posted by John77
...do you really expect any smart answer to your whatever question ?

C'mon dude! Don't hold back.. :)

[MorganGrayson]

Originally posted by John77
...do you really expect any smart answer to your whatever question ?

This all happened years ago, at a convention in...New Orleans?

I believe the pornstars name is Dolores Del Rio. (I may have the name replaced in my fragile memory by the 40's actress, or it may be the same name.)

Anyhoo...she's frigging famous. I've seen her name in tons of places. Don't watch porn, so I've never seen her work.

She walked over to our group, talking to someone about a floor somewhere that was striped. The first words I heard out of her mouth was "walking on it totally threw off my peripheral vision."

Now...the "polysyllabic" in my little title means "multiple syllables, but four or more" in a word. "Peripheral vision"? The lady's intellect entered the room before her rather impressive physical self did. I fussed like crazy to get an introduction, which made her laugh. She appreciated the humor of the "PTA Mom nutsy fan" as much as I appreciated *being* one. We pleasantly chatted for a while and I got to run around telling people that I'd met her.

That same convention brought me a famous content model, who turned out to have a lovely personality and ability to laugh at herself. I tormented her unmercifully when she showed up to work the convention floor. She had gold glitter on her stomach, so I did about five minutes on how it's not bad ENOUGH her stomach was so damned FLAT but she's got to go and put GOLD GLITTER ON IT. She blushed and laughed.

At a different convention, I stood next to a young model who was nearly in tears because no one would accept the flyers she'd been hired to hand out. All I had to do was slaughter a couple of webmasters as examples to the others and people started taking the flyers. She was good company.

The above babble is given as just a few examples of one of my own personal "adult 'net pet peeves."

Don't...diss...the...content.

None of us would have jobs without these people. We don't get to look down on them. If it weren't for the "content," there would be no porn sites and we'd all have to go get real jobs out there in the world. And frankly, one or two of us couldn't do that. Our skills don't quite transfer to the real world.

Sure, some of the content will never be MENSA members. But I couldn't begin to list the webmasters I've met that won't be members, either.

[shade001]

My question would be 'what advice would you give - pro and con - to someone thinking of entering the business?'

[war_ner]

Originally posted by shade001
My question would be 'what advice would you give - pro and con - to someone thinking of entering the business?'

It will be better if you open both sides to him/her and let him/her make the decision for himself/herself..

[StaceyJo]

Originally posted by war_ner
I think questions like that would only make them feel uneasy. Better ask him something that would mke them comfortable with you..

Talk about BUsh instead..

Bush, are you out of your mind??? I asked that question not bec. I want to make them uneasy, I want to ask that bec. I want to know whats the reasons behind , I wont judge... easking practical questions will see the persons personality, for me...

[pf69.com]

why did you get started in this biz?

I think that was the question I was going to ask...

[TopBuxBrad]

"If you could make a movie with any Hollywood actor, who would it be and why?"

[TheLegacy]

honestly I know a few pornstars and regularly email or chat on the phone with a few. I refuse to ask any questions about work or why they got into it. Generally my gut always tell me regarding pornstars and celeb's that when they aren't in front of the camera, they don't want to be thought of as the 'person' they are acting like.

I remember when I met a TV star in Vegas one time and when he heard I was from Canada - came up to me and said, "so your from Canada too.. how does it feel to meet a big time TV star?" I smiled, looked at him and said, "surprised".. he replied.. "surprised that you have the chance>?" I said, "no.. surprised that I promised myself if I ever met you I would beat the shit out of you and I'm not"

He laughed hard and put his arm around me and we became fast friends after that. He knew I wasn't sucking up to his celebrity status and I would always tell it like it was. On occasion I get a call from him when he is on TV asking how he did and I am blunt and honest with him.

I don't really talk to any pornstar or celeb that i can't be truly honest with since they see fake people everywhere around them and I sense it would be a breath of fresh air to hear honesty and integrity once in a while.

[shade001]

Originally posted by war_ner
It will be better if you open both sides to him/her and let him/her make the decision for himself/herself..

I'm sure that is right.

Don't guide the discussion.

I tend to be very analytical but most people aren't.