What do you enjoy most about this business?

[Evil Chris]

We all do what we do for a reason, so what is it about this business that you get the most pleasure from? What displeases you the most about it?

I like the fact that I get to meet and make friends with people from all over the world, and see them on a fairly regular basis at tradeshows. I also enjoy working from home although it did take me a couple of years to fully get used to it. The travel is nice too. I tend to go many places that I wouldn't ordinarily go to!

[XxXotic]

working from home and being my own boss :)

[Syl]

I agree Chris, the working from home part of things has proven to be a big benefit for myself and my family. It was a hard transition in the beginning but I am very grateful that I have this rare opportunity to help contribute to our household income and be home for my family at the same time. The travel opportunities are also a big plus. Getting out and seeing new and exciting places while getting business done is great. And lastly, I would have to say the friendships. It seems in this business more than others, it's easier to develop close and long lasting friendships with business associates.

[baddog]

Well, some people on "that other board" have been known to hound me about my age, and suggesting that I should retire. My question to them is, retire and do what?

I have a great time doing what I do, and would probably have to pay someone to enjoy the lifestyle I lead. You guys are stuck with me for another 30-40 years.

[modF]

I think what I like the best about this business is you really are on your own name. If you fuck up, you are called out on it from that day forward. What I dislike about this business is the amazing amount of non dedicated people who are looking to get rich quick, and just the general fly by nighters out there.

[Lange]

Hey Chris, nice topic.

Man, I would have to say the people that you meet and being your own boss. Also, the feeling you get when something is working that you worked hard on (that's pretty nice).

Oh and talking with Canadian webmasters when the Cup is in the states!

[Janell]

I agree Chris, the working from home part of things has proven to be a big benefit for myself and my family. It was a hard transition in the beginning but I am very grateful that I have this rare opportunity to help contribute to our household income and be home for my family at the same time. The travel opportunities are also a big plus. Getting out and seeing new and exciting places while getting business done is great. And lastly, I would have to say the friendships. It seems in this business more than others, it's easier to develop close friendships with business associates.

Hey Syl I would have never met you!!! Speaking of which girlie we have to get together for drinks.... My word of advice is always have an extra tire when driving to Phoenix right Syl! I enjoy working with people from all over. All of us bring something unique to the table and I really enjoy getting the opportunity to learn new skills. I enjoy the flexibility and of course the rewards, trips, goodies, and cha ching.

[Syl]

Hey Syl I would have never met you!!! Speaking of which girlie we have to get together for drinks.... My word of advice is always have an extra tire when driving to Phoenix right Syl! I enjoy working with people from all over. All of us bring something unique to the table and I really enjoy getting the opportunity to learn new skills. I enjoy the flexibility and of course the rewards, trips, goodies, and cha ching.


Drinks..YES!! Soon, very soon. I still owe your hubby. I'm out of town this weekend but perhaps next weekend we can arrange something. LOL about the tire. Yeah that was a no brainer, I just like to live dangerously. :laughout:

(Sorry to interrupt the topic Mr. Evil.)

[Cyndalie]

What is it about this business that you get the most pleasure from? What displeases you the most about it?

Pleasure? Honestly the people you meet in this business are one of a kind. The kindred spirits and the crazy entertaining types that can also be inspiring. We are the coolest geeks on the planet, hands down :) I get alot of pleasure from working with most of the people in this biz that I get the chance to. Everyone is unique, that's for sure!

As for dislikes, impatience and lack of foresight in this business can be frustrating as a veteran bystander. Expecting miracles over night and wondering why things don't work rather than fixing them. I'd like to see a resurface of talented programmers and tech driven people earning good money again, the lack there of, and the competition with mainstream has taken a toll over the last few years, on many levels and threads of talent. As they say, nothing good, or worth doing, is ever easy.

[Trixxxia]

What I like about this business is the access to people you would otherwise not have the opportunity to meet, let alone exchange ideas and even at times cultures. Getting to pick the brains of some of the most brilliant people online - that's not something easy to come by.

I like the fact that I am working from the comfort of my home - closer to my kids - less wasted travel time.

I like the travelling too - being face to face with people you've built solid relationships with for 6-12 months - that's definitely a perk of being in this biz.

There are probably a boatload other reasons why I love the biz but I'll limit myself to mainly those ;)

[Tanker]

working from home and being my own boss :)


I agree with you! When I was in the Marines I got into this to make a few extra dollars to put food on the table. I was building galleries and submitting them all over. It was before there was any commercial auto submitters. Everything was hand submitted. TGP's were just starting to automate. I loved learning to do HTML and Photoshop. I used it then to get that extra cash I needed.

After I got out of the Marines and Army I decided to find a full time job in the biz I was having a blast as my own boss part time but I needed to learn more before I could do this on my own. And I was able to make good money helping webmasters work with affiliate programs. I really enjoyed ( and still do ) helping webmasters develop ideas to create great sites and generating lots of sales. I worked for some of the best guys in the biz. I did it then for the lifestyle I think. I made good money, attended every show and most local and even semi local (Short flights) gatherings. I loved networking.


I worked for Lensman when it was just amateur pages. As the Affiliate Manager. I learned how to take care of our accounts and maintain good relationships with our affiliates. Lensman definitely taught me a lot.

Working for Steve Lightspeed I got a huge whirl-wind of an education. Steve taught me a lot. We developed lots of great ideas. Most of them were sitting in hotel rooms or on airplanes as we traveled the world. Set out to meet as many of our affiliates in person as we could. Introducing ourselves to new webmasters and programs anywhere on the planet we thought we could throw a party for webmasters and find enough business to justify it.

Steve taught me a lot about marketing too. We built some big names in the single girl site biz.. When I first went to work for Steve, we planned out our first contest and gave away a Honda CBR 600 Motorcycle. Me and the rest of the office wanted one too. I asked Steve what it would take to gets us each one and he told me to double sales. Steve bought us all Motorcycles on Memorial day weekend. we did a lot more over the next few years.

So I would say when I worked for Steve I did it cause I loved hanging out with my best friend all over the planet. We spent more time on the road together then we did at home most months. He was my best man last year in my wedding. I definitely made a life long close friend.

I do it now to make good money and be able to spend my time with my wife Ellisa. We both work together on Made In Porn and we run our consulting company as well. I enjoy working from home, making my own hours, I like being able to do it exactly the way I want to. Me and Ellisa work long hours but it pays off. In the end I enjoy my freedom as an entrepreneur and being successful.

:happy: :happy:

Tanker

[Tanker]

I would have to say the friendships. It seems in this business more than others, it's easier to develop close and long lasting friendships with business associates.


I agree with you Syl, 90% of my friends are in this biz or something very closely related.

[Tanker]

I think what I like the best about this business is you really are on your own name. If you fuck up, you are called out on it from that day forward. What I dislike about this business is the amazing amount of non dedicated people who are looking to get rich quick, and just the general fly by nighters out there.


So right your reputation will take you a long way in this biz. It's a small group of people in the grand scheme of things if you fuck up everyone will hear about it.

I am very careful in the choices I make in this business and I always try to do the right thing.

When I was in the Marines I was in one of 2 Tank Battalions and if you fucked up everyone knew on both coasts. Guys you went to Tank school with that went to the west coast to serve would hear about something if you fucked up. So I learned long ago to watch where I walk and do good business.

[SweetKayla]

There are so many things I enjoy, but can only pin point a few.
Working my own hrs is wonderful, I hated having to get up early to travel to work.
Not being told what to do by a boss, I love making the decisions myself.
The learning side of things, there are so many areas in the industry and so many things to learn, I'm sure most of you are still learning new things today.

[krosh]

I enjoy all the places I get to travel, and the people I meet. However, the thing about this business that I REALLY enjoy is how much I have learned technologicaly. We are so ahead of the business world in every aspect.

Now the thing I hate most is the lack of professionalism, people rippping each other off and not caring, and the high school drama that makes people believe they can air everyones dirty laundry on a public message board!!

:drool:

[Mr. Blue]

Boxer shorts. Yeah, for a good part of most days I'm just working with no shirt on and wearing a pair of boxer shorts. Talk about casual dressing...pffft, those peasants that think wearing "jeans" to work is casual can just suck on my boxer shorts in envy.

[Phoenix]

i really like working from home:)

it allows me to concentrate more on the job at hand. AS well as making moves towards my own goals.

The people are some of the best i have met and not what the average person would expect from some pornographers.

[12clicks]

for me, the money is the bottom line. At the end of the day, once I can't make money online, I'll leave.
All the things mentioned in this thread are nice but I'd shovel shit for the right amount of money and WOULDN'T work in this biz if the money isn't right no matter the perks.

[twinkley]

The people are both my most favorite, and least favorite thing about this industry. On any given day I can go from sleepy to pissed off to unbelievably happy and energized just by answering the phone 3 times, or opening up ICQ on any given day.

I wouldnt give it up for anything in the world.

And baddog - those people can all GO TO HELL! Fuck retirement - this industry loves you!

twinkley

[a1r3k]

hey chris thanks for sending me the link.

i like most the people in the business. yeah, you have you garden variety drama, and what not, but for the most part the people in this business are the reason. i love going to networking events and hanging out with the people that i make money with.

the other part is the ability to learn what you need as you need. like a self taught student. everything i've learned online 90% of it i learned on my own. i think that is the reason why this business is so unique is that you have 1000's of different people contributing to one pot and each of them has their own perspective on what is what, and what sells, and what is the in thing, etc etc.

being in charge of my own life is another. theres alot more flexibility with your personal time and what not being in online.

[Ronaldo]

The good-The people; the money

The bad-The seemingly unending drama; the ease with which new people can enter the industry and take a piece of the pie without having to front any capital at all...and their refusal to do so.

The ugly-Evil Chris, and Evil Chris alone

[luv$]

Chris, excellent thread idea. Great place to put my first post too :happy:

What I love about this industry (and mentioned before) is seeing what you create or follow through on come together AND work. As we all know it's rare, and 1 out of 15 ideas/projects pan out but man it is sweet when it does. I have also found great pleasures in the shows, and making friends with people from all over the world. Seeing people you do business with in person and sharing a drink is a GREAT experience, plus the new and varying cities are neat to see and experience.

What I don't like though is some of the childishness that goes on. For some reason (we won't go into, I have my theories here) adult tends to act more like high school, which can be fun; but then you have a bunch of 25-40 year olds running around acting unprofessional when it's important to be professional.

More than that though is a blatant disregard of the fact that we ARE being watched. There was a big hubaloo on the other board yesterday with pics of someone doing something illegal at one of the shows - listen, if you're going to do that sort of stuff, more power to you, have fun and don't hurt nobody - but for god's sake, keep it on the DL. What we DON'T need is more heat. So, in short, I don't like how self-destructive our industry can be.

One last thing! I also don't like how HOT toons can be, and I curse the fact that the XNations girl up top isn't real. Damn you Xnations, DAMN YOU!

[DonMike]

I've been in this industry for five years now, and even though I've had the opportunity to leave it, I simply won't. I really love working in adult. The main thing is the people. I have met some of the most amazing people in this industry, and my work friends are people I consider friends in real life and I don't think that happens when you work in other industries. The trade shows are more like family reunions. I always brag to my friends about the last trade show I went to, how the first thing on the itinerary for the day would be the bloody mary bar. They are all so jealous. I'm not a heavy partier, but the fact that when we all get together we are able to mix business with pleasure and get a good amount of both, makes this the industry for me.

The drawback to the industy is that there is still a lot of homophobia. Take a few certain message boards and do a search for the words "fag" or "homo" and you'll see all kinds of negative, really insulting rhetoric. And I've been at parties after the booze has been flowing and people are pretty well lit and they don't think about what they are saying and heard all kinds of nasty homophobic comments. But I really think that since we work in such a sexually charged atmosphere the people who aren't used to being around gay men are suddenly forced to see images of gay sex, which you can't really help, and it makes it harder to relate to the gay men who are working the business side of it. So a guy who's never really had gay friends or been around many gay people are suddenly forced to see banners and tours of gay sites, and then when they meet a gay man they can't help but get that image in their minds and it's hard for them to deal with. Not saying that this is an excuse to be mean and hurtful, but it does explain a few things. How do we remedy this? I don't know. But it would be nice if everyone in the industry could get along the way that I get along with the scores of industry folk that I feel so privileged to call my friends.

[Ronaldo]

The drawback to the industy is that there is still a lot of homophobia. Take a few certain message boards and do a search for the words "fag" or "homo" and you'll see all kinds of negative, really insulting rhetoric. And I've been at parties after the booze has been flowing and people are pretty well lit and they don't think about what they are saying and heard all kinds of nasty homophobic comments. But I really think that since we work in such a sexually charged atmosphere the people who aren't used to being around gay men are suddenly forced to see images of gay sex, which you can't really help, and it makes it harder to relate to the gay men who are working the business side of it. So a guy who's never really had gay friends or been around many gay people are suddenly forced to see banners and tours of gay sites, and then when they meet a gay man they can't help but get that image in their minds and it's hard for them to deal with. Not saying that this is an excuse to be mean and hurtful, but it does explain a few things. How do we remedy this? I don't know. But it would be nice if everyone in the industry could get along the way that I get along with the scores of industry folk that I feel so privileged to call my friends.
Our industry is a reflection of society Don and until society changes it's views, it isn't going to get much better.

I actually take the opposite view of what you think though. BECAUSE we work in a sexually charged industry, I would have thought that most people would realize that someone's choice of a partner, is just that...their choice. But that doesn't seem to be the case.

You're always going to have people use terms like fag and homo, and sometimes I don't even think they truly mean it in a derogatory way. They're just words to some people. Not understanding what they mean to a gay person, is an entirely different matter.

[Panky]

I like the challenge of it all. From developing the discipline it takes to work from home, to learning new skills, to dealing with a wide variety of personalities, and everything in between, it's all good. :)

[llaurell]

I pretty much agree with everyone’s views about being able to work from home, traveling, and meeting great people, etc. The other thing that I really like about this business is that we seem to be on the cutting edge when it comes to technology such as, video conferencing, DRM, encoding, mobile, and even Internet marketing. This industry has also helped to make great strides in technology, even as far back as to the times of the printing press. I have a great feeling of personal satisfaction when I see articles from respected journals/newspapers, such as the WSJ, with positive things about our industry. Obviously, sex/porn will always sell magazines for them, but lately there have been some excellent stories recognizing our efforts regarding our technology and Internet marketing strategy.

[DonMike]

Our industry is a reflection of society Don and until society changes it's views, it isn't going to get much better.

I actually take the opposite view of what you think though. BECAUSE we work in a sexually charged industry, I would have thought that most people would realize that someone's choice of a partner, is just that...their choice. But that doesn't seem to be the case.

You're always going to have people use terms like fag and homo, and sometimes I don't even think they truly mean it in a derogatory way. They're just words to some people. Not understanding what they mean to a gay person, is an entirely different matter.

Good post, Ron. Actually society is getting better. A little at a time. Ten years ago we could never have had a TV channel like Logo or shows like Queer Eye and Will & Grace. But you know, the people in the industry I've met with an open mind are really open minded. When Madame brings out her wooden spoons or Dark Lady talks about goth/fetish things or I joke around about my own bizzarre interests, people aren't put off by it. Even if it's so far out of thier own interests, they are always really open and inviting. So you are right that the sexually charged atmosphere we work in does have a positive effect on people as well. If you work in a bank and you find out your co-worker is into bdsm, it's could be a huge shock and maybe really cause some discomfort. But when you find out one of your colleagues in our industry is into bdsm you say, "Oh, I promote some of those sites", or "You mean like Madame's blog? Cool." It really is an amazing industry we work in. And because of that the negative aspects don't seem so bad. They end up being like a mosquito at a picnic. You wish you didn't have to deal with it, but overall they are something you can deal with and still really enjoy yourself. :)

[leedsfan]

I think it's learning everything I have about the net, site building, empire building at my own pace, without having to justify my hours to anyone. I love working from my office (no, i dont work from home). We built out a custom fitted 2500 sq ft production studio with lovely offices, and the staff have their own kitchen, lounge area...thats great. To be able to say I can provide for them and their families is awesome.

I try to take our projects to the cutting edge of whats possible technologically, and thats fun. I get a big kick out of that. My wife and I work together, which is a wonderful gift. We get to share ideas, plan our personal and professional futures ourselves, not through someone else's company and their paycheck.

Things i dislike most has to be how business deals get done at trade shows, and then never followed through. Bugs the the crap out of me. If i talk with you about doing something together, you can bet your bottom dollar its going to happen from my end!

I like the freedom of deciding if I golf or work!!! (always a tough decision)

Money is a big factor. I strive to be a multi millionaire. I have two businesses, and want dozens more. The drive i see in others from our industry is a huge motivator. When you see someone at a show who has made millions in their niche pushes me to work harder, and I love that feeling....

Generally the people in our space are very smart, warm hearted and generous. There are those who i find to be too materially minded and lack substance in their characters but they are rare. It's great to spend time with those who love to live, love to learn and love to do business, thats the most enjoyable asset we have....tons of those kind of people.....

[Bec]

I'd have to agree with what most everyone else has said about all the different people we get to know and maybe even meet. I've made some fantastic friends online, many of which I consider part of my "family of choice".

Logging onto various boards on any given day presents you with the opinions and brilliance (and sometimes outright stupidity) of those that make up this industry. Discussions aren't just about business, but about life, politics and social issues. I've learned more about the world from industry folks than I have in 30 plus years of watching the 10 o'clock news.

I love working from home, even though I did a career path for 30 years that mandated getting up and punching a time clock, it never felt "right" for me. Circumstances pushed the envelope, and now I'm on my own. While learning and using all the technology can be frustrating at times, I am the eternal student, and everyday brings something new and challenging. I can learn at my own pace, or when really clueless I can usually open up ICQ and find someone to explain what I'm not quite "getting" ... on just about any topic from design to marketing, to the best place to stay in any given city, or the best wine to serve at dinner. Bottom line, we're real people and we have a LOT of cumulative knowledge!

Being online has made the world a much smaller place, and has enriched me in ways I can't even begin to describe.

[NaughtyAce]

I like to start with the dislikes as there are very few for me in this industry. I've been doing this for 6 years now and I can honestly say that their are very few things I dislike. The only things I dislike in the industry are the get rich quick attitudes, there is a larger percentage of people in this industry out for the quickbuck than there is those looking to create a long lasting enterprise. The Second is those few people that are either errogant or pompus or are socially inept. Luckily those people are far an few between in this industry.

The things I like about the industry is how quickly it grows and how dynamic you can be as a person and as a company. The people are the most amazing people I've met, from young to old, from males and females, they are all so kind hearted and most of them are such driven individuals that like me, like to relax and have a good time. Another great part about this industry is you can be your own entity, your own marketing tool, your own business, and in some cases your own content ..... :wank:

I've been here for a long time by my standards and probably by many other peoples standards, and I don't plan on going anywhere. I'll continue to grow with this industry and add on to the long lasting friendships I've made.

[Basic_man]

I really enjoy working on my own hours, having to think about new projects, building a solid business, and work from homeeeee :)

And naked girls aren't so bad to watch :wank:

[aimeesweet]

I love the same things as everyone else... the people, the traveling and the technology...

But what I really like is the opportunities it has provided for models to control the rights to their content and capitalize on it. I love being able to run my own site and shoot what I want for it. Having creative control over how I wish to be portrayed on my site is very liberating for me.

I also like that, as a model, I have be able to transform myself from "just a model" to a business woman. I realize that my photos will always be on the web, so I can’t imagine ever working in corporate America… but it’s nice to know that our industry embraces talent and encourages us to take on an active role behind the scenes. I know that I will always have great job opportunities working within the business when it comes time for me to retire from modeling.

[rico-panchodog]

Hey everyone, my first post ;)

Thanks for the invite Chris.

You guys summed it all up before I got her ;) Not a whole lot I can add to your comments.

But I DO enjoy the flexibility, shows, people involved, and the creativity to just name a few things. I also LOVE the fact that competitors can do business with each other, whereas most other businesses do not have that advantage. Not that, that is the only advantage, lol

See everyone in Miami?

[Evil Chris]

One thing I like about this business is that I can draw a crowd of interesting and very informed people to a thread like this.

What I don't like is how hard it is to keep them hanging around! :)

[Ronaldo]

I also LOVE the fact that competitors can do business with each other

See everyone in Miami?
That's a good one. I constantly refer business to my competitors and vice versa.

Another thing I dislike is having models sites blocked because they live in such close proximity. :baby: I know it's not exclusive to this business, but I probably wouldn't know the models existed if I wasn't in it.

I'll be in Miami Rico. What models are you bringing with you?? :wank:

[jayman]

I'm gonna have to agree with the $$$ part. Its also nice to be involved with people that you are pretty sure are open minded.

[TheLegacy]

it makes me smile seeing everyone's post and the warm feelings we all have.

conventions to me are like high school reunions - I do not consider people as 'industry friends' as much as I think of them as family. Ron is as a brother to me, twinkley and cyndalie are my sisters.. sweetums a big sis.. bob rice, LAJ are close brothers and VID is my brother from a different mother. There are so many to count that i find myself so thankful for the generousity and stability I find within the people I know.. oh. and DonMike is the secret lover I visit every friday in a hotel room I have set up across town.

I simply have to ignore those who treat it as their own personal emotional toilet

[leedsfan]

One thing I like about this business is that I can draw a crowd of interesting and very informed people to a thread like this.

What I don't like is how hard it is to keep them hanging around! :)

ah the eternal struggle.

[StuartD]

I hate this industry.

[Evil Chris]

I won't be in Miami, however Rico we have some unfinished business from way back at the Phoenix Forum. I'll get with you or Uno sometime early next week if you still want to do some things. :)

[rico-panchodog]

That's a good one. I constantly refer business to my competitors and vice versa.

Another thing I dislike is having models sites blocked because they live in such close proximity. :baby: I know it's not exclusive to this business, but I probably wouldn't know the models existed if I wasn't in it.

I'll be in Miami Rico. What models are you bringing with you?? :wank:

Andi, Ariel, and Brandy ;) Brandy is new, Ariel's new tours and french tours will be up by then, along with our new merchant account, that we are excited about. :)

Sorry on the blocking, lol - I thought we got that fixed for you?

I'm headin out of town for a long weekend, you got my email and number, but if not:

rico =AT= PanchoDog.com
1-512-557-3763

CHEERS!

[Ronaldo]

Andi

Excellent. Did you say anything after that?



Seriously, I'm just bustin' your balls. No biggie. I can view it through proxy if need be.

[Kay]

I've always worked from home, but that certainly is a perk of this job too. :) I enjoy this job most because it allows me to be creative and work on things on my own time schedule.

[Vid Vicious]

Drugs and ass .. What else

[Nickatilynx]

Its the great people , the open mindedness and the fantastic parties...

Is it fuck!!!

Its all about the money.

:)

[AaronM]

This industry is the only industry that I have worked in which not only allows me to be myself but actually rewards me for it as well.

Plus, the travel, friends, and parties are a nice bonus.

[Evil Chris]

This industry is the only industry that I have worked in which not only allows me to be myself but actually rewards me for it as well.

Plus, the travel, friends, and parties are a nice bonus.That sums it up well Aaron.
How's your trip to southern Cali going?

[luv$]

Bump it up - great thread!

[Trouble Tonya]

I have to agree with everything that has been previously posted. I do not work from home, but I have a great boss!! The money is good, the people are GREATER and I have thong panties hanging off my cork board from the mansion party in Vegas!! Now tell me where else can you get away with that shit? OH YEA...I also love that I have a limp dick hanging off my desk drawer. You guys rock and this industry rocks! I went to my first show this month in Vegas. XBIZ is the shit! Everyone I met was amazingly nice and down to earth. I really expected people to be snobby and rude, but it just wasnt the case. I am blessed to be working for a great industry. Thanks EC for posting this excellent thread. Well done my friend...well done!

~T

[DonMike]

oh. and DonMike is the secret lover I visit every friday in a hotel room I have set up across town.


Uh huh. And how would your wife feel about that????


Shit, she's grab a soda and watch. Nevermind.

[DonMike]

I won't be in Miami, however Rico we have some unfinished business from way back at the Phoenix Forum. I'll get with you or Uno sometime early next week if you still want to do some things. :)


That sounded sexy. :luv:

[xxxmalouxxx]

Gotta love meeting new exciting people...
and friends of course..

[adamneve]

I love the fact that i get to meet a lot of interesting people online and then come to the shows and meet those new faces which i know quite good but never met before, sometimes it can be very surprising.
I also like the fact that most of the people/companies are in good terms with each other and work a lot together which is not common in other industries

[gnat69]

THE FREE DILDO'S THAT THEY GIVE OUT AT THE SHOWS
:shucks:

[gnat69]

I have to agree with everything that has been previously posted. I do not work from home, but I have a great boss!! The money is good, the people are GREATER and I have thong panties hanging off my cork board from the mansion party in Vegas!! Now tell me where else can you get away with that shit? OH YEA...I also love that I have a limp dick hanging off my desk drawer. You guys rock and this industry rocks! I went to my first show this month in Vegas. XBIZ is the shit! Everyone I met was amazingly nice and down to earth. I really expected people to be snobby and rude, but it just wasnt the case. I am blessed to be working for a great industry. Thanks EC for posting this excellent thread. Well done my friend...well done!

~T

You seem like such a cool ass chick, right on :ban3:

[DonMike]

THE FREE DILDO'S THAT THEY GIVE OUT AT THE SHOWS
:shucks:

Where did you get free dildos???? :eek:

[Trouble Tonya]

You seem like such a cool ass chick, right on :ban3:


Thanks baby! So do you. Maybe I will be lucky enough to meet up with you at a show someday.

[geck0]

talking to you mate - it is the highlight of my day :)

[dyonisus]

The varied experiences and connections. I learned alot from some of the best, I grew in both facettes of my career from the experience gained in adult. It has afforded me the luxury of working from home much of the last 4 years working on my own passions and interests as well. I have also had some adventures along the road.

[Carol]

Very good question

I'm not in it for the money.

I'm not in it cause I can work from home (probably cause I don't typically).

I'm sure not in it cause I don't have a boss cause that plain old isn't true.

I have however

1. Met some of the most incredible people

2. Discovered more about myself than I thought possible

3. Learned more than I thought I wanted to know

And I continue to

1. Cross paths with some of the most "real" people you'll ever meet.

2. Learn something new every fucking day (even when I don't want to)

3. See how important all of the above really are

The money's alright I suppose although I can't say that I've ever made a mint. My kids are well taken care of, my bills are paid (for the most part :) ) and me, well I have the pleasure of spending my days taking apart one puzzle after the next typically with people I actually like and respect.

That about sums it up for me.

[gnat69]

Where did you get free dildos???? :eek:


It has been a while since I went to the vegas shows, but the last one I was at I got 6 of them....

[gnat69]

Thanks baby! So do you. Maybe I will be lucky enough to meet up with you at a show someday.

We will for sure, I take it your not going to Miami next week eh?:huh:

[Carol]

Some interesting (and funny) responses Chris, great thread

[DonMike]

It has been a while since I went to the vegas shows, but the last one I was at I got 6 of them....

Damn girl, and you didn't share??? It's been a while since I got free dildos anywhere. Although I did win a strapon a while ago on a certain hump day radio show. Since I don't really have a use for those I put it on my manniquin (yes, her name is Paloma and she's lived with me for many years). Well, I thought it was funny at the time but then soon forgot about it. So this past December I had appendecitis and my parents came to spend Christmas with me since I couldn't travel. And since I got sick so quickly I didn't really have time to clean my place up. So there we were sitting at the dinner table when my Dad goes, "what is THAT?!?!". I followed his line of site and he was staring at the strapon, which had, over time, slid down Paloma's thighs and was poking out from under her dress. I'm usually not shockable but I must say for a few moments I was quite speechless. Finally I opened my mouth to explain and could not think of any kind of excuse, so I simply said, "That? Oh, um... well, that's a strapon. I won it in a contest." and went back to eating.

The really funny part is that the following day I found it in my bedroom, on the floor, behind the door. My 78 year old Catholic conservative father had removed a strapon from my manniquen, carried it across the room and into my bedroom. If only I had a picture of this. I can only imagine the repulsed look on his face. LOL!

[Trouble Tonya]

We will for sure, I take it your not going to Miami next week eh?:huh:


Unfortunately I am not scheduled to go. I have offered to break the limbs of my co-workers so they would stay home and I could go..but alas there have been no takers!! :luv: LOL I have even offered :wank: but still not one person has been willing to let me go in their place. Shit I was even willing to :boobies: but that didnt even get me anywhere. Shrug...I guess I am staying home this trip. ;)

[gnat69]

Damn girl, and you didn't share??? It's been a while since I got free dildos anywhere. Although I did win a strapon a while ago on a certain hump day radio show. Since I don't really have a use for those I put it on my manniquin (yes, her name is Paloma and she's lived with me for many years). Well, I thought it was funny at the time but then soon forgot about it. So this past December I had appendecitis and my parents came to spend Christmas with me since I couldn't travel. And since I got sick so quickly I didn't really have time to clean my place up. So there we were sitting at the dinner table when my Dad goes, "what is THAT?!?!". I followed his line of site and he was staring at the strapon, which had, over time, slid down Paloma's thighs and was poking out from under her dress. I'm usually not shockable but I must say for a few moments I was quite speechless. Finally I opened my mouth to explain and could not think of any kind of excuse, so I simply said, "That? Oh, um... well, that's a strapon. I won it in a contest." and went back to eating.

The really funny part is that the following day I found it in my bedroom, on the floor, behind the door. My 78 year old Catholic conservative father had removed a strapon from my manniquen, carried it across the room and into my bedroom. If only I had a picture of this. I can only imagine the repulsed look on his face. LOL!


Holy, LMFAO there is a soap opera in there some where :laughout: :laughout: :laughout:

[gnat69]

Unfortunately I am not scheduled to go. I have offered to break the limbs of my co-workers so they would stay home and I could go..but alas there have been no takers!! :luv: LOL I have even offered :wank: but still not one person has been willing to let me go in their place. Shit I was even willing to :boobies: but that didnt even get me anywhere. Shrug...I guess I am staying home this trip. ;)


:laughout: :laughout: :laughout: you offer :wank: and no takers? SHAME ON THEM ALL I SAY!!!!:shucks: they sure don't know what they are missing!!!!:luv:

[Trouble Tonya]

Thats the way I see it too... I guess its their loss if they don't want it.

[gnat69]

Thats the way I see it too... I guess its their loss if they don't want it.


did you tell them you know how to work a pole?...hehe and it is their loss :)

[Trouble Tonya]

Sometimes actions speak louder than words... HA HA HA JK I aint even gonna go there. ;)

[gnat69]

Sometimes actions speak louder than words... HA HA HA JK I aint even gonna go there. ;)


LMFAO :laughout: :laughout: :laughout:

[RawAlex]

What I enjoy most is setting my own hours and my own goals... I am the type of personality that doesn't work as well with large groups of people, so things are better when I am by myself to do for myself.

As a side note, what I enjoy the least about this business is that I have to compete with some of the most ruthless scammers, liars, and cheats I have ever met, and that this cheating is often supported by the program themselves.

Overall, it's not a bad business to be in.

[Nickatilynx]

As a side note, what I enjoy the least about this business is that I have to compete with some of the most ruthless scammers, liars, and cheats I have ever met, and that this cheating is often supported by the program themselves.



Yeah they piss me off too :)

[DonMike]

Yeah, I'm very anti-social myself. Very shy and quiet, keep to myself kind of guy.


Bwahahahahahaha!!!! And if you belive that I got a bridge in Brooklyn to sell ya. :laughout:

[RawAlex]

Yeah they piss me off too :)

Hey Nick, how's life on the left coast treating you?

[Nickatilynx]

Hey Nick, how's life on the left coast treating you?

Good Alex.

Yourself?

Nice to see you about again :)

[Mr. Burns]

I would say that I enjoy the boobies most. I find them to be excellent.

Smithers, where is my new issue of Klixxx??

[RawAlex]

I'm always about... just quiet at times... actually considering a trip out your way one of these days... maybe towards the end of the year.

Yourself?

[Evil Chris]

I'm always about... just quiet at times... actually considering a trip out your way one of these days... maybe towards the end of the year.

Yourself?Try to avoid the rainy season. So basically that's October 8th through 9th. Enjoy BC. :laughout:

[Nickatilynx]

I'm always about... just quiet at times... actually considering a trip out your way one of these days... maybe towards the end of the year.

Yourself?

If you do , hit me up in icq 8042030 if you have a sopare hour or two to grab a bite :)

Chris , gorgeous sunshine here since i got back :)

[Evil Chris]

Chris , gorgeous sunshine here since i got back :)I'm impressed! My last 3 visits out there have been cold and wet. Still managed to get some golfing in, however.

[DonMike]

I'm impressed! My last 3 visits out there have been cold and wet. Still managed to get some golfing in, however.

Evil golfing???
http://www.oracleofottawa.org/drevil.jpg

[Nickatilynx]

Evil golfing???
http://www.oracleofottawa.org/drevil.jpg


You've seen his swing , I assume...

:)

[DonMike]

You've seen his swing , I assume...

:)

Wow, I never thought Evil Chris was kinky!!! Oh wait, you said swing. I thought you said sling. Nevermind. :)

[Gruntled]

Wow, I never thought Evil Chris was kinky!!!

You can't be serious about that...

[DonMike]

LOL!!!:bonk: