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Funbrunette
10-03-2007, 07:18 PM
As most of you know I've joined the dark side....I also work for a Mortgage Firm in an office with people (so weird after all these years working remote and attending shows) the people I work with are cool, but it's so different than "our" industry....Everything is "too normal" lol :laughout:

Anybody else here have a "normal" job outside of the adult industry? How do you manage both? I get confused with Stephanie and Funbrunette...lol I find I have to be "tame" I'm so use to being myself and saying whatever is on my mind...PLEASE tell me it gets better.

Visualad
10-03-2007, 08:40 PM
who is this stephanie you talk about??

kaimai
10-03-2007, 08:46 PM
No it doesn't get better.

kaimai
10-03-2007, 08:47 PM
who is this stephanie you talk about??


FB is a schizo

Funbrunette
10-03-2007, 09:06 PM
FB is a schizo

Shhhhhh! Don't tell anyone! :laughout:

Terrence
10-03-2007, 09:07 PM
It does make sense you are beautiful smart and you like sex :laughout: They probably feel intimidated by your strong presence. You like the job?

Terrence

Casa Nova
10-03-2007, 09:35 PM
so does this mean I should come to u for my next mortgage? :P

rhetorical
10-04-2007, 01:35 AM
As most of you know I've joined the dark side....I also work for a Mortgage Firm in an office with people (so weird after all these years working remote and attending shows) the people I work with are cool, but it's so different than "our" industry....Everything is "too normal" lol :laughout:

Anybody else here have a "normal" job outside of the adult industry? How do you manage both? I get confused with Stephanie and Funbrunette...lol I find I have to be "tame" I'm so use to being myself and saying whatever is on my mind...PLEASE tell me it gets better.

I don't imagine it will get better. Personally, I know I will never have another job. I guess the question is why do you have a real world job if you don't want it? And if you do feel the need for another job, why do something so "normal"?

Funbrunette
10-04-2007, 07:09 AM
I don't imagine it will get better. Personally, I know I will never have another job. I guess the question is why do you have a real world job if you don't want it? And if you do feel the need for another job, why do something so "normal"?


I don't recall saying I didn't want that job...The bottom line is I don't want to travel anymore and my focus is my family (my 4 year old son) I'm not completely leaving the industry (I do own this board) but I find working normal hours 9-5 is going to be good for me in the long run. The transition is just a little difficult.

Casa of course I'll help you with your first mortgage! :)

Gruntled
10-04-2007, 08:08 AM
FB -

I went through the same thing when I started my current gig. I can say with some authority that no, it doesn't really get any better, but that you will get acclimated to it, like most anything else.

I get the feeling you will be shaking up the ol' mortgage office! Good luck with it!

Vid Vicious
10-04-2007, 11:16 AM
I won't know what to talk about at the watering hole ... Is seinfeld still the topic of chioce for water cooler chat ?

rhetorical
10-04-2007, 12:14 PM
I don't recall saying I didn't want that job...The bottom line is I don't want to travel anymore and my focus is my family (my 4 year old son) I'm not completely leaving the industry (I do own this board) but I find working normal hours 9-5 is going to be good for me in the long run. The transition is just a little difficult.

Casa of course I'll help you with your first mortgage! :)

This is interesting. My real world job, I would travel months on end. I was always on the road and I loved it. But it did start to take its toll. This job, I can live where I choose, travel when I feel like it, and spend more time around the house than I ever have in my life. I thought that was the charm of porn. Why do you have to travel a lot in the porn business? There are only a handful of conventions in a year.