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Cyndalie
07-16-2009, 09:46 AM
How often do men really need to cum?
If you have sex every other day do you really need to jerk off on the off days?
Just curious. I know everyone is different but I'm hoping for some honesty here.
Evil Chris
07-16-2009, 09:49 AM
What brings this question on? That's what I'd like to know first. ;)
Cyndalie
07-16-2009, 10:05 AM
I'm just wondering how much sex drive is based on physiological need.
thruma
07-16-2009, 04:56 PM
What brings this question on? That's what I'd like to know first. ;)

I agree! I see you already answered but I just want everyone to know I agree. :)
jacobkell
07-16-2009, 04:57 PM
I never cum,only in dreams which i cannot control.
TheLegacy
07-16-2009, 06:15 PM
My sex drive is directly related to how much money I have in the bank to pay for hookers
LAJ
07-16-2009, 08:41 PM
It varies... sometimes a week will go by without the need... other days it might be three times.
Evil Chris
07-16-2009, 11:33 PM
It varies... sometimes a week will go by without the need... other days it might be three times.That's about right. A week though?

A couple days MAYBE. :wank:
LAJ
07-16-2009, 11:50 PM
Nah... I've gone longer even. Sometimes I just really don't care.

And then other times... oh boy... I CARE.
thruma
07-17-2009, 07:53 AM
I think it's different for creative people.

We have the ability to channel the sex energy into creative things for a while but then it needs a sexual release and the creative thing just won't do.

I can't speak for LAJ but it sounds like that is what he's talking about.

I have to say though when I was 18 and for many years before I got into my 40's I had to minimum once a day. Usually more. Even with the creative stuff going on. :)
DonMike
07-17-2009, 01:42 PM
I always think you need to shoot as often as you can to keep everything working. Like if you don't use it you lose it.
thruma
07-17-2009, 11:48 PM
I always think you need to shoot as often as you can to keep everything working. Like if you don't use it you lose it.

It's also good to not do it so you keep hard for a while. Whacking off to the point of being limp all the time is no fun either.

Reminds me of this mad magazine I saw years ago.
This pic of a guy with the silliest grin on his face with the title "The joy of being horny" lol
Peedy
07-18-2009, 06:50 AM
Generally speaking for me, I notice when im getting laid on at least a semi consistant basis I rarely have the need to jerk it. However when not, it can sometimes got a few days but usually its at least once a day.
born2blog
07-18-2009, 11:41 PM
I think it's different for creative people.

We have the ability to channel the sex energy into creative things for a while but then it needs a sexual release and the creative thing just won't do.

I can't speak for LAJ but it sounds like that is what he's talking about.

this is very true
DonMike
07-31-2009, 11:15 AM
Well that just looks like an accident waiting to happen.
SexArise
07-31-2009, 12:11 PM
it depends on what kind of impact she has on you at that moment. It may have been a few days with no jerkin' then you see her and - bam - before you know it you're a 16-year-old again....then again I don't think us fellas ever escape puberty.
Stephane76
07-31-2009, 03:08 PM
no, not everyday, but someday 2-3 times :)
lace
08-03-2009, 08:33 AM
Every other day, if not every day :laughout:
LizAEBN
08-03-2009, 08:54 AM
I think it depends on the guy.

I've known guys that yank their cranks first and last thing every day, regardless of what else is going on. Others will go weeks without - just doesn't occur to them.

*shrug*

(And, yeh, my friends and I are pretty open, so we have had these discussions. *laugh*)
TheLegacy
08-03-2009, 01:22 PM
Huge difference between "need" and "want".
Vid Vicious
08-03-2009, 10:44 PM
2-3 times a day ... double that on weekends