True friends are hard to find!

[Funbrunette]

Frienship is something sacred and somewhat of a blessing. Unfortunately I seem to attract the "bad" people. I'm a giving. loving and mostly non judgemental person. I thought I had a friend, but quickly realized that friends don't hurt people and say hurtful things. I take this as an experience and a way to make me a better person. I just hope this person will someday realize she has lost more than a friend, a sister and ally. And perhaps get help for herself :(


A friend is more than someone who wipes
Your tears when you are sad.
They are more than the person you call when
Someone makes you incredibly mad.
A true friend does not have to be a person
You spend time with every weekend,
Or even someone who lives
Just around the bend. A true friend doesn't shut you out and accuse you
of the worst things, just because of their insecurities. http://instagiber.net/smiliesdotcom/otn/other/jpshakehead.gif

A friend can be a person with whom
You shared a single moment,
But you felt like it was just for
You they were sent.
Friendship does not always have to
Build up over years
It, like love, sometimes
Just appears.

So always remember that
Each person you meet
Has the potential to be someone
Especially interesting and neat.
Try not to judge those who
Don't seen your "type,"
Because their personality,

May fit yours just right.

Well, now I'm pissed and dispointed...I had been warned, but I usually like to give everyone a fair shake! Now comes the funny part...KARMA (http://www.ncf.carleton.ca/freenet/rootdir/menus/sigs/religion/buddhism/introduction/truths/karma2.html) Never fails!

People that know me, know I'm a kitten, but mess me with me too many times and OUT comes the claws! :D

[Mister X]

Shit happens. People are naturally prone to f'up and do stupid things. And sooner or later you will be disappointed in your choice of friends.

But it's still much better to leave yourself open to possible disappointment than it is to wear armour around your heart and avoid new friends just because of possible pain.

So have a drink or 2 and say fuck it. Then start looking forward to your next new friend!

For someone as good as you I'm sure it won't take long for that to happen!

[sweetums]

FB....

It can be very frustrating, very hurtful when someone who's suppose to be a friend doesn't behave like one. Over the years I've come to realize that lots of people come in and out of your life...very few end up having lasting power.

But that doesn't mean that there isn't any significance in those more short-term relationships -- always something we were meant to learn, I think. For me...well, my friends...my real friends...they're my operational family. The family I chose. That network has grown a little bit over the years, but it's still pretty small.

Now just tell who's ass I need to kick :)

[monaro]

Dearest Funbrunette,
A friend is someone who understands your past,
believes in your future and accepts you today the way you are!

[myjah]

People are hard to truly know. And good friends are very hard to find (and keep)

[Cold_ice]

Funbrunette I really don't know you like most of these folks but from what I have I read about you and your pics I can tell a few things about you. Your a great person, friend, mother and leader so you really can't blame folks for wanting to wear your crown. Don't get depressed or mad, you should pity them for a few second then realize you were better off. I don't know what situation you find yourself in; therefore, I can not recommend in which direction to go but I'm sure you will make the best choice for yourself.

[Don Soporno]

People can be jerkoffs. Move on and know that your better off for having put forth the effort. Mister X is right, friends will come and go but its best to keep yourself open to those little let downs cause if you dont you may very well miss out on someone who would have appreciated what you have to give.

[thruma]

True friends are hard to find but we do find them and thats when you need to keep them.

As for others who aren't just let them go and don't waste anymore energy on them. Use your energy to build your other friendships with those true friends who deserve it.

Disassociate yourself and let karma take it's course with the others as I can tell you from experience karma really does exist :)

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[Panky]

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[monaro]

i think we all should give her a group hug..
what do you think?

[Funbrunette]

You guys ROCK! Guess...What I'm feeling AMAZING this morning! I've come to realize life is too short and I'm surrounded by truly beautiful people! I was warned about this person and learned a valuable lesson. So there's always something positive in every situation!

Have a WONDERFUL day everyone! :luv:

Thanks for the kind words! :)

[blazi]

cute pic Panky :)

[thruma]

Originally posted by Funbrunette

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Guess...What I'm feeling AMAZING this morning!

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Excellent!
:)