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Virgule3 08-29-2008 07:57 PM

Lesson to learn
 
I received this in an email from a friend today. Whether the story is true or not, I think it holds a valuable lesson on the resilience of us all.

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Being a veterinarian, I had been called to examine a ten-year-old Irish Wolfhound named Belker. The dog's owners, Ron, his wife Lisa, and their little boy Shane, were all very attached to Belker, and they were hoping for a miracle.

I examined Belker and found he was dying of cancer. I told the family we couldn't do anything for Belker, and offered to perform the euthanasia procedure for the old dog in their home.

As we made arrangements, Ron and Lisa told me they thought it would be good for six-year-old Shane to observe the procedure. They felt as though Shane might learn something from the experience.

The next day, I felt the familiar catch in my throat as Belker's family surrounded him. Shane seemed so calm, petting the old dog for the last time, that I wondered if he understood what was going on. Within a few minutes, Belker slipped peacefully away.


The little boy seemed to accept Belker's transition without any difficulty or confusion. We sat together for a while after Belker's death, wondering aloud about the sad fact that animal lives are shorter than human lives. Shane, who had been listening quietly, piped up, 'I know why.'

Startled, we all turned to him. What came out of his mouth next stunned me. I'd never heard a more comforting explanation.

He said, 'People are born so that they can learn how to live a good life -- like loving everybody all the time and being nice, right?' The six-year-old continued, 'Well, dogs already know how to do that, so they don't have to stay as long.'

Live simply.

Love generously.

Care deeply.

Speak kindly.

Remember, if a dog was the teacher you would learn things like:

When loved ones come home, always run to greet them.

Never pass up the opportunity to go for a joyride.

Allow the experience of fresh air and the wind in your face to be pure ecstasy.

Take naps.

Stretch before rising.

Run, romp, and play daily.

Thrive on attention and let people touch you.

Avoid biting when a simple growl will do.

On warm days, stop to lie on your back on the grass.

On hot days, drink lots of water and lie under a shady tree.

When you're happy, dance around and wag your entire body.

Delight in the simple joy of a long walk.

Be loyal.

Never pretend to be something you're not.

If what you want lies buried, dig until you find it.

When someone is having a bad day, be silent, sit close by, and nuzzle them gently.

ENJOY EVERY MOMENT OF EVERY DAY! <!--IBF.ATTACHMENT_3548924-->

Evil Chris 08-30-2008 08:17 AM

Certainly words to live by.... Great post Sophie. :)

carol.prime 09-01-2008 05:58 PM

Thanks for posting. :) great reminders.

12ClicksMichele 09-07-2008 01:24 AM

I just had to give my two boys away and I am still upset about it. They were both half Husky half Shepard weighing in at 80 pounds each. I had to move and was unable to find a rental that would accept theml. Its been a week since they are gone and I still wake up in the middle of the night looking for them to be curled up around me.

Dogs are the best when you are down to make you feel better.
Thanks for the story

Virgule3 09-07-2008 06:59 PM

I could not live without my boys and I'm looking to get another dog, an abused and neglected Italian Greyhound... I hope I can get her here! And I trie to live like them as much as possible too...

I feel for you Michelle... I'm so sorry you had to give them up. I bought this new house with my boys in mind. They rule my life but they do know how to love everyody and be nice so...

Sophie.

Way3 09-08-2008 12:53 PM

Nice post and great story! Thanks for sharing it!!

Cyndalie 09-08-2008 02:43 PM

I'm wagging my body right now!


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