[TheLegacy]

does hiring a photographer really matter all that much? the joy of sites is that alot of members prefer to NOT have such professional pictures taken. and since he is in the industry, he also would have a good eye as to what is good and not. this isn't worth the relationship and could ultimately curse you for years down the road.

start off by letting him take the pictures etc. then in time - if he doesn't improve, he may suggest a photographer he knows - or simply start going to classes. as much as this might upset you - this is the point in a relationship where one will becomes stronger than the other, and feelings get hurt... as does trust. give him time to adjust to your decision - and ask yourself - is it that important that it may upset and ruin a wonderful relationship?