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Originally posted by XxXotic
but how have you changed? I keep hearing this "I wont do this now, but I did when I was single" do what? fuck random people things like that? that pretty much goes without saying if you're in a monogomous relationship.
whats different now that you have a man/woman?
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1. Before planning a trip with my girlfriends, I would talk about it with him first (not to ask him permission, but to show I respect and care for him) When I was single I would just take off whenever without having to consider anyone else. (well, maybe my dog, but that's a little bit different...lol)
2. Without necessarily "fucking random people" you're just not the same when you go out...I make it obvious that I'm not available if I feel another person is coming on to me. I don't flirt as much (I say as much because flirting is actually healthy for both parties)
as I use to when I was single. I was more outgoing and forward...
3. Depending on if you're in a serious relationship or not pretty much everything you do affects the other (like accepting a job in another Country, taking a long vacation with friends...)
You get my drift? It's done automatically when you meet that special someone you care about!
Geez...I sound like Abby...lol