[Ronaldo]

Let me give you one example. Cyndalie is a very intelligent woman, but doesn't feel the need to around TELLING people that she's a very intelligent woman. I like Cyndalie. Yet, another woman on another board used to have these two taglines in her signature..."I'm a smart cookie" and something like, "Men who are intimidated by intelligent women have small penises". PUHLEASE. I've never met that woman and instantly took a disliking to her. Anyone that feels the need to TELL everyone how intelligent they are, isn't as smart as they think are.

There's a big difference between BEING intelligent and HAVING to tell people you ARE intelligent. Just as there is a big difference between NOT needing a man and going out of your way to PROVE you don't need a man. One is perfectly fine, the other is a huge turnoff.