I have seen it a thousand times in the regular world too.
I am not sure its anymore rampant in this industry then others my friend.
It still boils down to pure trust with your spouse...
Ohhh and pure violence for those who try to pull that shit off on me.
However you are very right about what people get away with in this industry.
Even look at boobs in the office these days and its off to sexual her-ass-ment class
Hope all is well and hope to see you soon.