Welcome to XNations cutetallguy8!!
For your CC processing needs you could always check out:
http://www.verotel.com/index-en.html
... they provide solutions for credit card billing as well as alternate billing options
If you want to find an excellent host with great rates and customer service I strongly recommend
A1 Web Solutions. I have all of my adult sites and some mainstream sites hosted there as well and have never had any problems even with all my Hun listings.
Anyway, again welcome aboard!! Good luck, feel free to ask questions and I hope this helps!