Need Help With SEO

[crash9811]

I have a site that is about two months old and im trying to get into google with the search term "sex toys".I dont know how i did it but i got picked up by google my first month and can find my site under "sexy toy products" and "adult sexy toy products" but i can not find my site under "sex toys" or "adult sex toys".I have not spent any money on advertiseing my site and i am trying to see how far i can go with out spending any money.Does trading links hurt or help your website?I just dont like the looks of having all them links on my site.I would like to know how all them sites ranking well for "sex toys" do it when they dont have trade links on there site.I woud like to hear any tips,tricks or advise from anyone that can help.Take a look at my site and tell me what you think.
Thank You
http://www.sexytoyproducts.com

[Cyndalie]

You need to go back and do some SEO 101. Why are you using a meta tag generator? Is your store content plugged in or is it an actual store you host? Why don't you have a logo and header tags? Your basic page titles need to match your metas and text on the page. What is Sexupstore? Get rid of the link farms at the top and bottom of the pages, find a better way to cross promote and get exchanges. Clean up your code. Make all javascript remote and use more CSS. Analyzie your competitors. Tidy up your pages, make the keywords you want to search for visible to engines and users. Check out this class I wrote a few years ago http://www.cozyfrog.com/academy/08-traffic-lounge.aspx