You check out the following...
For resources?
http://www.ynotmasters.com/
They've been around forever, and they know their stuff! XNations swears by the weekly YNOT News!
http://www.allofem.com/
This is the yellow pages of our industry. You need to bookmark them and visit every day!
http://www.webmasteroftheyear.com/
A fun and unique contest brought to us by Adult Chamber. Check it out and maybe nominate someone for Webmaster of the Year!
http://www.cozyfrog.com/
Your adult industry buddy... Another wonderful resource site, but my favourite are the excellent articles they come out with that are always worth a read!
A daily visit to all 4 of these links will totally benefit your daily webmaster life.
I highly recommend...
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