Mr. Blue...you have to. My husband and I had a discussion on what we wanted done with our "remains." We decided that we'd be cremated. Whoever went first would be kept in an urn until the other died, then we wanted our ashes scattered together by all three of our children. We found the whole thing impossibly romantic. When I told my youngest child of our decision, I was met with a stone face, rigid body language, and heard myself say "of course, we could always think of something else...."
If there are things you definitely *want* to happen, there has to be a legal document and you have to discuss it all with the people you expect to be your survivors.
I wonder if our mail carrier and the hunky UPS guy will get together and scatter our ashes for us?
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