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Originally Posted by Virgule3
Yeah, sorry guys, but again, someone I thought was interesting gave me the boot for no reason!
Man! Why? What do I do to them? What's wrong with me?
Sorry, I need to vent. |
I don't want to be harsh, but why is your first thought that it was "your" fault or something is wrong with you?
Old saying of mine, "if they can put a man on the moon, why not all of them?"
Are there men who are assholes? Yes
Are there women who are bitches? Yup
Key is to recognize them and steer clear rather than find out the hard way and not just go for a pretty face. Best idea is to make a list of your ideal man, a check list. On the first meeting or date start asking a few questions to break the ice, if you spot any red flags then walk. I am sure by now you know what signs to watch for but NEVER think it's your fault - trick is to know when to say stop before your heart is hurt.
Start by asking, "what similarities have you noticed in the men you're going out with that eventually lead nowhere?". Determining that will be a good start
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