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05-24-2007, 02:08 PM
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*Imagining Chris in a tight Corset* Yup there could be cock...lol  |
my pants just jumped.
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05-23-2007, 01:39 PM
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Double Standard. period.
But then you are stuck in a very similar situation as I am. My hubby has hesidently said 'ok' to some things with many arguements about it. I think it's a double standard because if the guys really wanted to do something I believe we'd be jealous but more open to explore it.
I don't believe humans are monogamous. There are so many things you could explore if you let yourself. Some can be with just one person and that's great, but for the majority we crave more.
There are many things I want to do that I 'can't' do and I do hold a huge resentment because of that, and know parts of me will never be satisfied while I am in this relationship. I know he's trying to 'protect' me for his many reasons (which I don't belittle), but I don't need his protecting I need his support. Many of you have probably heard me say 'my hubby won't let me' when responding to certain things and that's because as much as I'd love to I need to make this relationship work before anything else.
Sometimes I wish my hubby and I was never in the adult industry to be frank. For me the industry shows me things I'd love to do and explore. For him he seems to become more protective of me. Needless to say it's the same whereas he was in the industry while I was not when we met, so go figure.
Really priorities need to be set in order. Realise what is the most important and realise some tough decisions sometimes need to be made. Either way there are many outcomes. Either she's going to do it with him. She's going to do it without him. She won't do it and resent him for it.
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05-25-2007, 07:11 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by She Devil
Really priorities need to be set in order. Realise what is the most important and realise some tough decisions sometimes need to be made. Either way there are many outcomes. Either she's going to do it with him. She's going to do it without him. She won't do it and resent him for it.
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Well said. This part really sums it all up. |
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05-23-2007, 01:39 PM
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Janell
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Marriage is full of sacrifices. There are boundaries in a commitment both collectively and individually. Stepping outside those boundaries have consequences some maybe good and others not so much. I guess it's a matter of deciding if you want to live with the consequences.
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05-23-2007, 02:15 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Janell
Marriage is full of sacrifices. There are boundaries in a commitment both collectively and individually. Stepping outside those boundaries have consequences some maybe good and others not so much. I guess it's a matter of deciding if you want to live with the consequences.
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I think if a marriage can't last through such a little "hump" then it's not meant to be. I can't think of anyone I know that is married that doesn't have issues once in a while. Now I'm not talking about MY marriage I'm talking generally.
Legacy you nailed it! |
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05-24-2007, 12:49 PM
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Janell
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Funbrunette
I think if a marriage can't last through such a little "hump" then it's not meant to be. I can't think of anyone I know that is married that doesn't have issues once in a while. Now I'm not talking about MY marriage I'm talking generally.
Legacy you nailed it!
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Yup just some humps are speedbumps and some are mountains. |
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05-23-2007, 01:59 PM
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Janell
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Ronaldo I won't whine Im way too Bossy for that~
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05-23-2007, 02:01 PM
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Ronaldo
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Janell
Ronaldo I won't whine Im way too Bossy for that~
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You're whining to me on icq RIGHT NOW! |
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05-23-2007, 02:04 PM
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Janell
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You're whining to me on icq RIGHT NOW!
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I'm not whining I'm giving it to you straight... it's just too much truth to handle. lol |
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05-23-2007, 03:31 PM
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Hrm... marriage. Yet another reason for me not to get hitched.
Hope my woman doesn't find this thread
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05-23-2007, 03:54 PM
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kaimai
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Platinum Chris
Hrm... marriage. Yet another reason for me not to get hitched.
Hope my woman doesn't find this thread
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Sending her the link now |
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05-24-2007, 08:57 AM
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pink thongs and corsets oh my  |
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05-24-2007, 12:49 PM
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Janell
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Originally Posted by Evil Chris
pink thongs and corsets oh my |
You're gonna teach us how to Jane Fonda! whoo hooo. |
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05-24-2007, 10:36 PM
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I'd be interested to see you fit into that correst ...
Err I disagee Legacy ... a burlesque/pin up site wouldn't be one with amateur photography !
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05-24-2007, 11:18 PM
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Cold_ice
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FB your a very beautiful woman so I really can't blame EC for not wanting to share you with anyone. To show you off at a club is one thing but to share you with the world I would never be able to do that so I'm with EC on this one.
But if you do get your way let me know I'll be your first customer  |
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05-25-2007, 08:41 AM
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Funbrunette
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FB your a very beautiful woman so I really can't blame EC for not wanting to share you with anyone. To show you off at a club is one thing but to share you with the world I would never be able to do that so I'm with EC on this one.
But if you do get your way let me know I'll be your first customer |
I should kick you in the butt...lol As I tried to explain numerous times it's a burlesque, pin-up style site NO NUDITY! Look above at Vid's pictures they're fun and there's nothing wrong with that. I would even be proud to show my site to my own father...lol So It would be clean good fun!
But don't worry I'll send you the naughty pictures...lol |
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05-25-2007, 12:34 PM
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well if vid is the photographer, then I think any husband would be okay LOL.
honestly, vid is the only one I would trust to take nude pics of my wife if we got to that point... and believe me, that takes alot to say and admit on my part
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05-25-2007, 03:54 PM
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Originally Posted by TheLegacy
well if vid is the photographer, then I think any husband would be okay LOL.
honestly, vid is the only one I would trust to take nude pics of my wife if we got to that point... and believe me, that takes alot to say and admit on my part
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thanks Robert ... Gee I guess it's abotu time we show you those Bourdoir pics we did last summer ... LOL
Can I make a suggestion here ... ?
if Chris feels uncomfortable with this, then don't do it. If he needs some convincing .. then get on your knees and put on some lipstick, LOL
Seriously .. if he felt uncomfortable in anyway I wouldn't shoot you. we've been thru this before Steph, about 4 or 5 years ago ... I said the same thng then as I say today ... I'd be more then happy to shoot this for yah ... but only if your both comfortable and in agreement about this.
With that said .. Maybe a trail shoot would be inorder .. A correst or Pin up dress .. With both of you (i know that Chris has some corrests in that closet of his) .. LOL ... Something to make you both feel better ...
Oh and on the Betty Page thing .. Umm she's Stark NAKED in her top pin up and Glamour stuff .. it's her fetish stuff that she stayed dress for.
And err .. Nobody said anythign about Ms Page the 83 year old born again christian .. Err nobody but Feynman ... which leads me to my next question .. What the hell you been doing all this time, Feynman? your last posts got me worried ... LOL |
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05-25-2007, 01:49 PM
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For a minute there, this thread took a slightly odd turn, but it is good to see it back on track.
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05-25-2007, 02:48 PM
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Betty Page makes me warm and tingly.
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05-25-2007, 02:50 PM
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Funbrunette
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Quote:
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Betty Page makes me warm and tingly.
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See, and she's not naked! |
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05-25-2007, 03:08 PM
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Feynman
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See, and she's not naked!
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No, but she's also 84 ! Who would want to jump her bones?
As for the choice of photographer, from the standpoint of the insecure husband, there are two choices:
Either one that is a gentleman extraordinaire,
or one what is exceedingly ugly.
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05-25-2007, 03:15 PM
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FB, who did your make-up in Vid's pics?
It's good, btw...
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05-25-2007, 05:16 PM
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Funbrunette
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FB, who did your make-up in Vid's pics?
It's good, btw...
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Wouldn't know, that's not me, but you can see me at http://www.myspace.com/funbrunette55 |
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05-25-2007, 03:25 PM
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I don't understand why it's such a huge deal. There's not really that much 'sharing'.
I think you both should go out and find a photographer you can trust and enjoy to work with. This should be fun for both of you.
FB he's going to be a pain in the ass either way. Men have a hard enough time when a woman makes her own money. They have this desire to feel needed and that they can support you. Why they feel that people paying for your pictures is sharing I don't know.
Chris you can either fight her about this or sit down and realise this is nothing against you. You will see how happy she is being in this harmless spotlight. You should enjoy alloying her to make herself happy while being safe. Also keep in mind there's a large chance she will be happier because the camera will make her 'feel' sexy thus the less work you will have to do to get some something something.
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05-25-2007, 11:06 PM
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Funbrunette
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I don't understand why it's such a huge deal. There's not really that much 'sharing'.
I think you both should go out and find a photographer you can trust and enjoy to work with. This should be fun for both of you.
FB he's going to be a pain in the ass either way. Men have a hard enough time when a woman makes her own money. They have this desire to feel needed and that they can support you. Why they feel that people paying for your pictures is sharing I don't know.
Chris you can either fight her about this or sit down and realise this is nothing against you. You will see how happy she is being in this harmless spotlight. You should enjoy alloying her to make herself happy while being safe. Also keep in mind there's a large chance she will be happier because the camera will make her 'feel' sexy thus the less work you will have to do to get some something something.
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SheDevil I haven't informed Chris of my desire to have sex with you in one of my photoshoots....lol NO WAY! That's something I'd keep to MYSELF! |
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05-25-2007, 11:25 PM
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SheDevil I haven't informed Chris of my desire to have sex with you in one of my photoshoots....lol NO WAY! That's something I'd keep to MYSELF! |
I'd like to start the bidding on that photo set!
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05-26-2007, 12:52 PM
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SheDevil I haven't informed Chris of my desire to have sex with you in one of my photoshoots....lol NO WAY! That's something I'd keep to MYSELF! |
oh - so this is what chopped liver feels like
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05-26-2007, 01:05 PM
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She Devil
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SheDevil I haven't informed Chris of my desire to have sex with you in one of my photoshoots....lol NO WAY! That's something I'd keep to MYSELF! |
Someone distract our boys, we need to go get naughty  |
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05-25-2007, 03:56 PM
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Vid Vicious
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Lastly if you have a problem with nudity .. FIND ANOTHER JOB!
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