SEO Advice Needed

Hey Everybody, Rachel Here aka “DirtyGirl” from VirtualDirtyGirl.com
What’s Up?? Hope ur all doing great!
I have a question (an age-old question) I’m completely redesigning and overhauling my site and I want build the pages as search engine optimized as possible. I spent the weekend reading, reviewing, downloading demo seo software and testing it all. Needless to say I went to bed with a big headache, more confused than ever.
I’m managing a bunch of sites now (adult & non-adult) so I’m willing to buy a licensed seo software package if I know it’s good and easy to use. I would like to find one good solution which will help in an on-going manner (not just a one night stand) Do any of you have any recommendations? Feel free to go off topic a little if you have some related opinions. This site has some reviews - http://www.seosoftware.net/webceo
I look forward to hearing back from you all.
Kinky Canadian Kisses
Rachel Heart – aka DirtyGirl from VirtualDirtyGirl.com

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